1. Directions feet away from your partner
When you love something, part of the body, without realizing it, moving closer towards him. Well, when you're alone with your partner, controls the direction of your feet. Make sure the foot toward the partner or your date instead of towards the sexy woman or handsome man sitting next to you. The direction of the foot that leads to dating couples indicates that you are attracted to them. If the distance from it to another object, mark the object is more interesting than your date.
2. Pat at embrace
Embraced as an end to dating shows warmth. However, you should avoid dating partner's body while patting each other's arms. Although this pat movement usually occurs spontaneously to overcome her nervous. So as not to be awkward, just give a brief hug at the end of dating.
3. Moving too fast
You may not realize, body movement is a reflection of the emotions within ourselves. Usually, when you feel awkward with a first date, body language speaks. Feeling awkward or nervous is usually characterized by eating too fast or talking fast. Well, if this happens to you, sign you nervous or even feel uncomfortable at first date. So, control your body and try to slow motion when eating or talking, even though you are nervous. Initial impression that should be shown is confident, calm and relaxed.
4. Too much nodding
Nodding signifies agree or agree what the word pairs. But too often nod indicates you are not interested in conversation during a first date. Nodding signifies agree with the utterance pairs fine, but try the frequency minimum.
5. Speaking asynchronous
You do not have to pretend to always be disconnected with a partner, although in reality you and he does not sync. But make the atmosphere more comfortable with engaging in pleasant conversation. Conversations that connect, interact and mutual listening. Do not just want to be heard no matter what they say mate. Control your speech as an important initial impression when the first date.
6. Crossed hands
Crossed hands is a clear body language shows you shut yourself from others. Big mistake if you do this when the first date. Because this movement makes the situation uncomfortable. We recommend that you open wide your hand, to show that you open yourself up and get involved in conversations with dating couples.
7. Too close is not
Even if you catch the signal that couples interested in you, still keeping his distance. That is, do not be too close to your partner during the first date. Being a little hard to get a good idea. Do not be too fast away from it a sense of attraction that you want can be lost overnight.
8. Idly fiddling with a particular object
Playing cutlery, napkins or certain objects near you give a message. This attitude shows you are nervous, unsure of himself, not interested, or bored. Try to focus on your first date. Make yourself comfortable and show your interest to enjoy being with the him.
9. Staring eyes too intense
Eye contact when talking is good. However, when the first date, do not be too long staring eyes, or give a sharp gaze. The attitude of this body will only make the couple feel uncomfortable, because he felt intimidated. Eyes should be just a few seconds just so that you and she does not feel awkward.
10. Touch it
Even though you and he feels disconnected, engaged in conversation exciting and fun, but do not then you have a ticket for free touch. As a first date, be careful with touch. If you are too indulgence in touch, he will assume your interest is only limited to physical or sexual. You can touch it, if the he had touched first. A touch early to be a marker that he also expects similar treatment as a sign of interest.
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