Best 5 Ways To Familiar by-laws

Not all women have an intimate relationship with in-laws. Although initially fine, over time, there are only minor problems that make relationship-law (women) and mother-in-law became no fun anymore.

Sally Shields, author of The Daughter in Law Rules, claimed to have a good relationship with the mother-in-law. However, the experience of his friends, who have relationship problems with her mother-in-law, encouraged him to write the common problems experienced by these women.

Shields gave five suggestions for relationship-law (women) and mother-in-law is more familiar:

1. Do not forget three special days in-law's mother.
Write down in your agenda, three mothers-in-law of this special day. Ie birthday, wedding anniversary, and mother's day. But there are tricks to deliver a birthday greeting or mother-in-law of this special day.

Ask your husband to write a greeting card, give the impression that your husband, the boy's mother is forgotten by this particular day (perhaps your husband does not forget the special day his mother). Then position yourself as the person behind the screen that reminds the husband of his mother's special day. Ask the husband signed greeting cards on behalf of you and him.

2. Routine call.
Anyone want attention, including mother-in-law. You need to divide your attention, though busy, a time to call the mother-in-law, especially when the husband not being around you.

The habit of calling this does not mean you have to call every day. Choose one day a week, to call the mother-in-law. Just to say hello and talk about its activities, it is important to do regularly.

3. Ask him for advice.
It's okay if you want to create their own little world with her husband at home, without intervention from anyone.

However, occasionally you need to ask for advice from your mother-in-law, for the simple things. Like the color of curtains for example. So when it comes to your home, and see your curtains according to his advice, his mood would be better.

4. Praised him as a mother.
A mother also needs praise, for his efforts to raise his children. Give sincere compliments to your mother-in-law, that he has been a great mom to all her children, including for her son, your husband.

5. Praise appearance.
Attention to the key word. If you see the physical changes of your mother-in-law, do not be stingy to give a compliment. For example, skin that is now brighter, more refreshed appearance, choice of handbags or clothes that made her look more beautiful. He will be glad that you liked the style of clothing.